The Lame Dating Game or the Games some Men and Women Play when it comes to dating

For starters, Who puts these dumb ass captions on some of these photos? How in the "Hell" you loyal to someone who doesn't repay the same loyalty to you? Take several seats honey! She, her, me, not having it. Better get yo life! And miss me with the bullshit. Now I'm not a male basher, there are some good dudes out there. And then there are others;  you know the ones the guys that are just so full of game. But honey one must be observant. Know the difference between a guy who has general interest in you, or the guy whose "in my Steve Harvey voice"SPORTS FISHING" (lol) I'm not the kind of chick you bait in, then "Throwback". Very much aware of what I deserve, my motto "Actions speak louder than words with me". And a man who seeks me for long-term taking the time to genuinely get to know me. I want the casual to commitment experience. A the right guy don't mind waiting for the nookie. It's much healthier to take your time than jump into the sack too soon. Intimacy with me, comes "After" I'm in a "Committed Exclusive" relationship..I mean I dont know about you honey but I'm 35! I'm done playing. And this other foolishness I here about the "Open Relationships". What's Classy about that? Nothing Open here but my heart after trust has been established. You better know it!!! So to the men&women playing games. Go play with those who enjoy the games. And to any side eye glances from the female readers, ladies "FYI" Men love Women with Standards,Get Some! So if the guy is unwilling to call,go the extra mile, respect my boundaries. Then I'm not her, and he definitely isn't him. Well not for me, I suggest the player make passage; So he whom I Respect and Respects my Standards in return, can make his way to me. A man with a dream and plan requires the treasure in which I bring. I know my Worth! How about to snaps in a circle! Say it with me! Dont come for me if you full of shit!!! It's that easy, those who truly desire committment,put your foot down. Settle, but never Settle. You get my drift?

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The Best Detective in the World a Woman

He's her night in shinning armour. She's head over heels in love. The romance, finance, the sex all extraordinary! But as time progress both parties began to become complacent and the guy has become bored and the hunter in him begans to thirst for the adventure of the prowl. And the once sweet understanding Lover his Queen, his dollface. Senses troble is brewing in her home and has know become the detective of truth. Never once communicating effectively her concerns with her man instead she interrogates him with accusations. Now he wasn't cheating but his frame of mind has gone from wondering to acting upon his desire. I mean if your gonna be accused you may as well be doing it right? Wrong, women all ask the age old question in love and relationships. Why men cheat? When a man finds that joy he needs in his life I honestly believe his desire to cheat becomes slim to none. I believe the biggest reason men cheat is because there is always a woman out there whose willing to have a man who's knowingly committed to another. We focus so much on the insecure woman but never hold both parties responsible for neglecting the union from jump. And now, the man begans feeding the woman he clains to loves insecurities with his silence shutting her out and misguided affairs. Or glancing eyes right in the very presence of his lady. I've been able to experience first hand a woman scorned where we were both in the blind about his deeds but I have also been the scorned woman. Now there is one thing I so dislike. The snooping woman who calls and blames the other woman for her man's misguided deeds. Now there are some instance where the sideline chick knows. but the times I'm refering to are the one where both parties are in the blind. My pet peeve is Why do women do that thing? You know the thing I speak of, snooping through a guys things( i.e. phone , email, Facebook) she then contacts the woman and becomes belligerent and makes herself know with the infamous. I'm his woman blizae blizae and then she tells the other woman all their private business. Exposing her man and his weaknesses,how horrible of a guy he is. How he cheats and he's a dog and how she took care of him when he was doing bad how he had to drive her car and move in with her(side eye )I'm thinking, well if he's that bad why are you still with him? I mean you say he's a horrible guy, so are you afraid of being alone? There is a diffrence between being alone and lonely( the analyst in me questions logic especially for ignorance it really isnt bliss)these chicks confuse me. Ladies if this is you don't call the other chick and expose your man's weaknesses to this random chick instead talk to your man if deep down you want your man, resolve it if possible. See why he's cutting up, maybe he feels neglected. And if he's that horrible dont listen to the ratio of Single Men vs.Single Women believe instead there is a good guy with your name imprinted on his heart and it's time to clear the way to make room for his arrival. Lastly ladies, never expose in the light something you have yet to deal with in the dark. Now,that may have flew over some head. Go back and catch it