Ok True Story, I encountered my First Down Low Brother right here in the world of Facebook. Well this guy started inboxing me and we became Facebook friends. I'll just call him Sweet n Low. Any who, Sweet n' Low was handsome muscular built with the Idris Elba type of glow honey. Dark skinned and Single or so I thought. One day out of curiosity I was like let me go look at his page you know view his pictures see how he rolling. He bragged a lot, so it made me curious. So I take a stroll through the photos and I ran across this one photo. You know the ones we all steal from each other. Well, this one said: Love the one who sticks by you who celebrates you, not tolerate you that kind of love is for a lifetime. At first I was thinking with my mushy chick mindframe, awwwww. But to my surprise
Under the photo there was a comment from a man . And I qoute: Y'all just jealous of what we share and you can keep trying nothing will break us apart. In my Scooby Doo voice mmmhuhm? So being me I made a comment my bullshit detector knew something wasn't right. I was like Sweet n Low, who is this guy and what is he referring to? He goes, Oh that's an old crazy FB friend of mines..lol
So I was like, well it sounds as though he's referring to you as his man? Sweet n Low didn't respond. So I made another comment one which expressed my disbelief. Oh my! that just doesn't sit well with me. So I went back to the pictures Noticed the man was tagged in half of his album. Pictures at restaurants no faces just "2" sets of man's hands. Oh yes! if something is suspect to me I'm getting to the truth I can't help it the scorpio in me can sense bullshit from a mild away. So the guy says hello to me on the post. Checking his trap I guess. So I inbox the man I would normally never do this but my gut was dead on I just needed to be sure I was on point. (yeah u may think I was wrong) but this man and I had already had one date and spent frequent moments in text and conversation by phone. I have a right to know if he is Bi-Sexual."Wrong Chick" to play games with. So, I message the man I was like Hi I was just wondering how do you and my good friend Sweet n Low know one another...his reply:
Why!!!!
Me: Oh my why so hostile?
Him : Why!!!
I'm thinking yeah
So I reply never mind Honeyyy
He went off !!!
I don't want your baby daddy he won't me. I'm like whoa whoa, I don't know this fella in this manner
He shared all kind of dirty sexual details so of coarse I felt the need to inform the other party involved. So I gave Sweet n' Low a much needed update on this.
I text him: Hey Uhmmm you may want to have a word with your man friend he's in my inbox letting all your skeletons out the closet. At that moment I knew without a doubt he was a down low brother. He cursed me out I responded, look Sweet n Low your the deciever in this matter, loose my number. Moments later they blocked me. I guess the cat was outta the bag. Some say Facebook is for entertainment, but there is some truth in some of the things we browse over on social media . After all Facebook ask us daily: What's on your mind? What was on my mind was is this dude gay? I needed to know. To each it's own but I'm full blown heterosexualAnd deserve honesty at all cost. I tries to keep it Classy but with a K. . You be sure to do your home work when it comes to dating. You never know whom your interacting with you'll be shocked at what you learn. Especially with the Catfishing going around. I'm thankful at this moment. Oh if he and I would have been intimate that's when the shit would have really hit the fan. Glad I followed my instincts. You may need to do a little homework.
Before you get involved with the wrong person or find yourself heart broken. Because honey Sweet "n" Low was on the Down Low.
Under the photo there was a comment from a man . And I qoute: Y'all just jealous of what we share and you can keep trying nothing will break us apart. In my Scooby Doo voice mmmhuhm? So being me I made a comment my bullshit detector knew something wasn't right. I was like Sweet n Low, who is this guy and what is he referring to? He goes, Oh that's an old crazy FB friend of mines..lol
So I was like, well it sounds as though he's referring to you as his man? Sweet n Low didn't respond. So I made another comment one which expressed my disbelief. Oh my! that just doesn't sit well with me. So I went back to the pictures Noticed the man was tagged in half of his album. Pictures at restaurants no faces just "2" sets of man's hands. Oh yes! if something is suspect to me I'm getting to the truth I can't help it the scorpio in me can sense bullshit from a mild away. So the guy says hello to me on the post. Checking his trap I guess. So I inbox the man I would normally never do this but my gut was dead on I just needed to be sure I was on point. (yeah u may think I was wrong) but this man and I had already had one date and spent frequent moments in text and conversation by phone. I have a right to know if he is Bi-Sexual."Wrong Chick" to play games with. So, I message the man I was like Hi I was just wondering how do you and my good friend Sweet n Low know one another...his reply:
Why!!!!
Me: Oh my why so hostile?
Him : Why!!!
I'm thinking yeah
So I reply never mind Honeyyy
He went off !!!
I don't want your baby daddy he won't me. I'm like whoa whoa, I don't know this fella in this manner
He shared all kind of dirty sexual details so of coarse I felt the need to inform the other party involved. So I gave Sweet n' Low a much needed update on this.
I text him: Hey Uhmmm you may want to have a word with your man friend he's in my inbox letting all your skeletons out the closet. At that moment I knew without a doubt he was a down low brother. He cursed me out I responded, look Sweet n Low your the deciever in this matter, loose my number. Moments later they blocked me. I guess the cat was outta the bag. Some say Facebook is for entertainment, but there is some truth in some of the things we browse over on social media . After all Facebook ask us daily: What's on your mind? What was on my mind was is this dude gay? I needed to know. To each it's own but I'm full blown heterosexualAnd deserve honesty at all cost. I tries to keep it Classy but with a K. . You be sure to do your home work when it comes to dating. You never know whom your interacting with you'll be shocked at what you learn. Especially with the Catfishing going around. I'm thankful at this moment. Oh if he and I would have been intimate that's when the shit would have really hit the fan. Glad I followed my instincts. You may need to do a little homework.
