If you ask most Single Women what they long for in a companion, most will say they desire a man whose balanced. A man of great understanding, A born leader, hard working and yes one whose emotionally mature. Logically we will never understand the complexity of how Beautiful God designed us. I'm in this transitional phase, and I'm learning that our emotions are simply indicators that are triggered if and when angry, upset, hurt, depressed or when your not being treated how you believe you deserve to be treated. It's our que to stop, embrace the feeling, reason with it and not react. But instead respond with wisdom. Fellas, her emotions (if she knows how to control them) are the GPS to help the two of you stay on course. I mean, think about it.
Someone has to be intune with the emotional part of the connection. The reality is Men are logical , Women are emotional. And to the men. Your ability to think logically, helps keep the two of you balanced. If we each operate according to how we were created relationships, families even our society as a whole would be so much better. This is coming from a Woman who's working on her own emotions, that is(tickled you would have to know me to understand) "Emotional Intelligence" is Key Ladies!" Studying self to evolutionize self is great. After all you are you're greatest project.
Klassy K's Truth Serum
Wednesday, May 21, 2014
What do Women really want?
Are you truly ready to be his Wife?
Are you really ready to be a Wife?
A question I find myself asking myself everytime I entertain the idea of whay would it be like? The finding a dress planning yada yada yada. I may not be married as of yet. keyword "yet". But neither am I ignorant.
Women of faith love qouting the Scripture He that finds a Wife finds a Good thing...the problem with that is...we are too busy being good things when it clearly says, he finds a Wife. Which means we must have the qualities and character of a Wife before we wear the dress and run to the church or the court house. And being a Wife means more than laying on your back like Flipper,
"Cleaning like Hazel" and "Cooking like Betty Crocker". There are business's legal and illegal that offer a man all the above. Are you patient? Are you prayerful? Can you encourage? Are you capable of keeping the affairs of the home private between he and yourself?
Are you financially responsible? Forgiving? Can you Commit to one man? Can you Support his goals and dreams? Are you emotionally available without smothering or going ballistic? Are you focused on solutions? Or are you driven by problems? All questions we as single/dating women should ask ourselves, before hand. That and so much more. In my opinion every marriage union should be a reflection of God's love. "Unconditional love".
Not self seeking, fault finding, very sacrificial and unselfish. And if one has not mastered these things. Think twice before accepting his ring.