The Lame Dating Game or the Games some Men and Women Play when it comes to dating

For starters, Who puts these dumb ass captions on some of these photos? How in the "Hell" you loyal to someone who doesn't repay the same loyalty to you? Take several seats honey! She, her, me, not having it. Better get yo life! And miss me with the bullshit. Now I'm not a male basher, there are some good dudes out there. And then there are others;  you know the ones the guys that are just so full of game. But honey one must be observant. Know the difference between a guy who has general interest in you, or the guy whose "in my Steve Harvey voice"SPORTS FISHING" (lol) I'm not the kind of chick you bait in, then "Throwback". Very much aware of what I deserve, my motto "Actions speak louder than words with me". And a man who seeks me for long-term taking the time to genuinely get to know me. I want the casual to commitment experience. A the right guy don't mind waiting for the nookie. It's much healthier to take your time than jump into the sack too soon. Intimacy with me, comes "After" I'm in a "Committed Exclusive" relationship..I mean I dont know about you honey but I'm 35! I'm done playing. And this other foolishness I here about the "Open Relationships". What's Classy about that? Nothing Open here but my heart after trust has been established. You better know it!!! So to the men&women playing games. Go play with those who enjoy the games. And to any side eye glances from the female readers, ladies "FYI" Men love Women with Standards,Get Some! So if the guy is unwilling to call,go the extra mile, respect my boundaries. Then I'm not her, and he definitely isn't him. Well not for me, I suggest the player make passage; So he whom I Respect and Respects my Standards in return, can make his way to me. A man with a dream and plan requires the treasure in which I bring. I know my Worth! How about to snaps in a circle! Say it with me! Dont come for me if you full of shit!!! It's that easy, those who truly desire committment,put your foot down. Settle, but never Settle. You get my drift?

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The Best Detective in the World a Woman

He's her night in shinning armour. She's head over heels in love. The romance, finance, the sex all extraordinary! But as time progress both parties began to become complacent and the guy has become bored and the hunter in him begans to thirst for the adventure of the prowl. And the once sweet understanding Lover his Queen, his dollface. Senses troble is brewing in her home and has know become the detective of truth. Never once communicating effectively her concerns with her man instead she interrogates him with accusations. Now he wasn't cheating but his frame of mind has gone from wondering to acting upon his desire. I mean if your gonna be accused you may as well be doing it right? Wrong, women all ask the age old question in love and relationships. Why men cheat? When a man finds that joy he needs in his life I honestly believe his desire to cheat becomes slim to none. I believe the biggest reason men cheat is because there is always a woman out there whose willing to have a man who's knowingly committed to another. We focus so much on the insecure woman but never hold both parties responsible for neglecting the union from jump. And now, the man begans feeding the woman he clains to loves insecurities with his silence shutting her out and misguided affairs. Or glancing eyes right in the very presence of his lady. I've been able to experience first hand a woman scorned where we were both in the blind about his deeds but I have also been the scorned woman. Now there is one thing I so dislike. The snooping woman who calls and blames the other woman for her man's misguided deeds. Now there are some instance where the sideline chick knows. but the times I'm refering to are the one where both parties are in the blind. My pet peeve is Why do women do that thing? You know the thing I speak of, snooping through a guys things( i.e. phone , email, Facebook) she then contacts the woman and becomes belligerent and makes herself know with the infamous. I'm his woman blizae blizae and then she tells the other woman all their private business. Exposing her man and his weaknesses,how horrible of a guy he is. How he cheats and he's a dog and how she took care of him when he was doing bad how he had to drive her car and move in with her(side eye )I'm thinking, well if he's that bad why are you still with him? I mean you say he's a horrible guy, so are you afraid of being alone? There is a diffrence between being alone and lonely( the analyst in me questions logic especially for ignorance it really isnt bliss)these chicks confuse me. Ladies if this is you don't call the other chick and expose your man's weaknesses to this random chick instead talk to your man if deep down you want your man, resolve it if possible. See why he's cutting up, maybe he feels neglected. And if he's that horrible dont listen to the ratio of Single Men vs.Single Women believe instead there is a good guy with your name imprinted on his heart and it's time to clear the way to make room for his arrival. Lastly ladies, never expose in the light something you have yet to deal with in the dark. Now,that may have flew over some head. Go back and catch it

Our thoughts are "Provoking" and have the "Power"to materialize your desires

One can think themself into a fortune. Even if you have nothing to start with, except the capacity to KNOW WHAT YOU WANT, AND THE DETERMINATION TO STAND BY THAT DESIRE UNTIL YOU REALIZED IT. You may have no money to begin with. You may have little education. You may have no influence. But, if you have initiative, faith, and the will to win. You can have whatever you like

America Approved a resolution to accept openly gay boys as Scouts

Members of the Boy Scouts of America have approved a resolution to accept openly gay boys as Scouts; ban on gay adult leaders remains. What are your thoughts?
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Let's Do this dirty laundry....Kelly Rowland says it's time to clean up

Kelly Rowland comes candid about an abusive relationship she was in almost a decade ago. In the song "Dirty Laundry  Kelly shares with us how "bitter sweet" her life had become behind the glitz, glammer  lights and camera's. In the song she states that the unidentified abuser not only physically but also mentally abused her proclaiming to her that he was the only one who loved her although his love was destroying her slowly. Domestic violence doesn't discriminate no matter our status qou. The statistics still inform us that 1out of every 4 women in America are affected by this growing epedimic. Kelly is blessed to be alive and be as transparent about the experience. This isn't always the case, many women have lost their lives at the hands of the very one who claims to love them. There is help available for anyone desiring to be free of such a detrimental situation. I happen to produce stage play production that bring awareness but also contributes to the financial support of such organizations as Houston Area Women Center ans Bridge over troubled water, located here in Houston. Local safe houses that assist with counseling, group therapy and career counseling to assist the women in becoming self sufficent. Let's not turn a death ear are a blind eye to those whom have lost the power of their own voice. Kelly reconfirms a silent cry truly desires a way out. Remember ladies, love is patient, love is kind, it's not fault finding. Real love protects and never neglects.
Peace and Blessings
Kenya

Kelly Rowland New X-Factor Judge

Yes it's true Kelly Rowland has been hired on as one of Fox's New judges for their show "The X-Factor" Ms.Rowland a former member of Destiny Child has truly amazed me. She's evolving as a performer proving her ability to be a successful Solo Artist. I must admit I truly love her smash hit "Kisses down low"....being a part of one of the most famous female groups. I look forward to the flavor she will bring to the new season of X-Factor. Be sure to tune in.

Love and Hip Hop Atlanta....The Saga continues

I know everyone tuned in to tonight's episode of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta. But I want to just recap with daunting questions from the beginning of the New Season. First and Foremost, how many of you agree with me that Momma Dee needs to mind her business, get a man or go ahead and hook up with Shae herself. I mean the comments she make regarding Shae are very questionable. Momma Dee "FYI" The jury is still in deliberation regarding you. Your actions and comments are very much suspect. And she has taken this whole "Prince" of the South thing with Scrappy waaaayy too far. In the beginning I was upset with Ms.Erica Dixon for such display of disrespect towards her elder. But hey just because your elderly it doesn't grant you to pass go and be as belligerent as Momma Dee has been referring to Erica as "BICTH"...I will never let her live that down (Hooked on phonics). Fast forward, that boy Stevie J is a live pimp if you ask me. I mean I'm not upset with him at all those women allow it ,and the new girl. Let's just call her "Gator Mouth" (Stevie J has serious issues I think he was neglected as a child and he love's whores). Miss Mimi ain't no Saint...He was someone else's man when she first met him. But how long do you actually think MiMi's New Boa will last. 15 years of the same bullshit, there is a possibility that she's finally reached her breaking point. Or could this just be a tit for tat antic to prove a point hmmmm time will tell. And that damn K.Michelle is crazy, but you gotta love her. Now next on the list D.J Tracie Stillz needs to stop with the fantasy of her and her child's father trying to force her hand with this man is only gonna make him fight harder to prove he's King. No man wants to be treated in that manner and trying to pimp him in order to invest $25,000 in his business it's an Investment dumb ass draw up a contract and make sure you get residual returns. You trying to buy you a husband. Go sit your ass in the corner!!!. I'm like damn you're Chris Brown's D.J. ask Chris for the money . He knows your good for it. If a man doesn't want you nothing can make him stay and if he does want you. Nothing can keep him away "Context Clues" Tracie. Okay guys, Do you think Scrappy will marry Erica? Get with Shae, or totally renege on both of their asses for Shiznyeeez lol. Karlee Red, Karlee Red who? she's becoming less relevant as the weeks go by. She's being either removed or replace her and Benzino I never bought them two being a real couple to begin with. Do you guys believe Joseline or Benzo? It ain't no fun if the homey can't have none. I can't get over Joseline's comment "No Neck". Counting down the days til next weeks episode. Again we have to keep tuning in. Please comment and post about your favorite Love and Hip Hop cast member and moments. I would love you to hear your feedback