Are you really ready to be a Wife?
A question I find myself asking myself everytime I entertain the idea of whay would it be like? The finding a dress planning yada yada yada. I may not be married as of yet. keyword "yet". But neither am I ignorant.
Women of faith love qouting the Scripture He that finds a Wife finds a Good thing...the problem with that is...we are too busy being good things when it clearly says, he finds a Wife. Which means we must have the qualities and character of a Wife before we wear the dress and run to the church or the court house. And being a Wife means more than laying on your back like Flipper,
"Cleaning like Hazel" and "Cooking like Betty Crocker". There are business's legal and illegal that offer a man all the above. Are you patient? Are you prayerful? Can you encourage? Are you capable of keeping the affairs of the home private between he and yourself?
Are you financially responsible? Forgiving? Can you Commit to one man? Can you Support his goals and dreams? Are you emotionally available without smothering or going ballistic? Are you focused on solutions? Or are you driven by problems? All questions we as single/dating women should ask ourselves, before hand. That and so much more. In my opinion every marriage union should be a reflection of God's love. "Unconditional love".
Not self seeking, fault finding, very sacrificial and unselfish. And if one has not mastered these things. Think twice before accepting his ring.
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